Tuesday, March 12, 2024

Control vs Compromise


I usually try to do what she wants. People say that my wife is in control. I think they got it wrong. It's because she couldn't control her emotions when things don't go her way, or when she doesn't get what she wants... So in order to have peace, i endeavour to keep her happy, by doing what she wants me to... I have to control my desire to lose temper even when i am angry. I have to control my tongue so as not to let slip words that might cause her to have an eruption of negative emotions. I have learned to even control my facial expressions just to keep peace. So it is i who is in control of self. Greater is he who can control himself than one who controls the world. Please check grammar and corrections if needed. Then review what they writer is trying to portray or his emotional state of mind. Is he delusional or sane?

Wednesday, January 31, 2024

Be Happy


Q: Why do you consistently strive to bring happiness to others?

A: It's because I find myself in a state of unhappiness.

Q: I'm puzzled. Could you elaborate on that?

A: Well, I've experienced firsthand how dreadful and disheartening it is to be unhappy. My goal is to alleviate that feeling for at least one more person in the world.

Q: But I thought psychologists say, "Hurt people, hurt people."

A: The essence of the concept "hurt people hurt people" suggests that individuals who have undergone pain, trauma, or suffering are more inclined to inflict harm on others. This can take various forms, including physical violence or emotional and psychological distress.

Q: So what you're doing seems to go against that logic or concept.

A: Exactly. I aspire to break the cycle of reactionary hurt and strive to contribute to making the world a happier place, at least for one additional person.